Journey of Love and Intimacy is a two weeks Tantra Massage Course. The first week Journey of Love leads to creating trust, love and experience to proceed to the second week. The second week, Journey of Intimacy, builds up on the first week and explores more advanced and intimate fields as the Lingam- and Yoni-Massage.
This two courses are created to help you go deep into your inner ecstasy, bliss and healing. Each week contains six Workshops, which have a different subjects and take around 3,5 hours.
We offer our course for couples as well as singles who are willing to work together with another partner. Our course is especially great for couples, as couples always work together in our retreat to improve and strengthen their relationship. Most important is the connection and to bring you and your partner into the state of energetic merging. If you are able to achieve that, everything will flow!
It is our priority to respect the boundaries of the individual participants. In every exercise, we encourage you to perceive your limits and to articulate and express them clearly, as this can be a very healing experience. If you are fully aware of your limits, you can also make progress outside your comfort zone. We welcome every willingness and openness to take the step into the unknown.
Deep healing may appear. Healing of your past, your presence, your future, healing of your body, your heart and your spirit, healing of your femininity and masculinity and healing of many other aspects of your life.
Deep sexual pleasure may occur too. In Tantra, we welcome sexual energy. Yes, we transform it into sacred and creative power, by keeping it in, instead of releasing and losing it. We bring that energy, called ecstasy, into the higher levels of our beings like to –
– the heart, that you will become more loving
– the throat that your communication will improve
– to the head that you will become more creative or spiritual
You may experience ecstasy in all parts of your body. Your life may never be the same!
Journey of Love – week one (click on title to see description)
1. The Magic of Tantric Massage - Introduction Evening
This workshop is composed in such a way that you can learn and feel what sacred touch is, so that you can allow healing energy of love into your body and life. Mastering the art of giving and receiving tantric massage is opening us on many levels:
It helps to recover energy
Teaches us sacred touch
Raise awareness of the body
Is an Introduction to tantric sex
Develops our potential for love.
It is not possible to mention all the benefits of tantric massage but first of all it is an experience of deep inner joy, bliss, cleansing, peace and ecstasy. It is the experience of being whole. We will mainly focus on the feelings in the body and not only on the techniques . First of all, we want to ensure that participants will experience touch, that they open up for receiving and giving on the body level, that they open up for feeling the pleasure of being a giver and receiver of a massage. We want to go deep into the levels of feeling pleasure, bliss, and flow of the love energy. We want to free all the tension from our bodies, let them go away to make more space in the body, to make in the place of the blockages space for the flow of life energy.
2. Ocean Massage / Tantric Massage in a Relationship
Learn how to use massage in your relationship – to improve your beautiful love, your intimacy and sexuality. Massage could be great for fore play, after play, middle play of love making. Even better, it could be love making itself. Tantric massage may bring you so much higher ecstasy than average, typical, 5 minute intercourse ended with loosing energy and so often frustration on the long run.
At this workshop, in playful journey, we would learn, explore and exercise powerful Yin and Yang polarities.
Many couples are saying that they’re ok they don’t need tantra. In our School Of Tantra Movement we don’t wanna that your relationship would be just ok. We would like that you would become supreme lovers and your passion to each other would grow constantly. At this workshop I would also introduce you new language, how you may communicate with each other. Its ¨5 minut tantra¨ – method from Diana Diakova and Martin Heese from TantraZone (C.H.A.I) from Copenhagen. This body language may bring you deep understanding to each other , what would help you to connect better and sort out many problems in your relationship and in your life in general.
3. Kashmiri Tandava Dance Massage Workshop
The Kashmiri Tandava Dance Massage starts with dancing according to your own, individual breath. Start to dance not for others or for the music, but in your own rythm, which is guided by your breath.
Deepen and enhance your breath with the movements of your body. Let the bod follow your breath.
This bridge leads you to fully awareness of here and now.
After this preparation we go into the Kashmiri Dance Massage, which also follows your breath with deep, floating, intuitive movement. Long, energetic and fluent strokes coming from the breath bring us in very meditative but dynamic atmosphere, where receiver would surrender in to the moment and to the love itself. It will make you feel safe in the ultimate dimension. It will bring you closer to yourself in deep connection.
4. Ecstatic Dance with Tantra
In this Workshop we experience to loose concepts, blockages and anything that is holding us back through the powerful tool of Dancing. We will set our focus on freeing the body with powerful Tantric techniques and Awareness exercises. We play with Shiva and Shakti energies, bring our energies into ectsasy and have fun!
5. De-Armouring, De-Blocking Massage
What we are going to experience during this workshop is a massage, where by your partner pressing particular points you are brought to your limits of pain and then stay there. In this way we are getting rid of our emotional pain, our energetic pain, what we have been carrying sometimes all our life.
From our upbringing, society, parents, teachers, religion, through life we created protection – Armour – which was supposed to save us from the things that may hurt us. There’s nothing bad in having that armour, but unfortunately we have it all the time.
For example, some of us are still ashamed to be naked during lovemaking, or to express our passion or even our voice. We are holding back our behaviours, our emotions in the areas of life where it would be most appropriate to use them.
The process of ‘de-armouring’ can give us back the freedom of using or not using our armour, to use our protection when we when we want to. As with all tantric healings, it may heal us from emotional pain, liberate us from conditioning, and from bad past memories mainly connected to our sexuality, etc.
“I felt so light after, like on some LSD or ayahuasca trip, only this time I had everything under control because I felt being here and now like never before. I could feel much stronger all my senses but also energies around me, what before I was not even aware that they exist. It was painful to my limits, but it gave me sense of liberation and expanding my consciousness. I feel much more myself and free now. Amazing. – Salin ¨
6. Awakening the Senses Ceremony with Cacao, Closing and Sharing
Listen to the quiet whispers of your own body.
When we fully experience our senses, we enter into the heart, into love with existence. And instead of thinking about and analysing the world, we love it, we feel it, we become a part of it. We experience the bliss, ecstasy and deep fulfilment that can come to us through our senses. To practise this, we do a ritual that awakens each sense in turn and allow ourselves to absorb this bliss in our hearts.
This is a totally yummy, delicious and deep meditation that touches the body, heart and soul. For anyone who wants to expand the experience of their senses or use the body as a gateway to the self. Done to each other it is a great way to connect and feel gratitude and more love and sympathy for your partner. It awakens the child in us, a child who is playing the adult games of love.
Journey of Intimacy – week two (click on title to see description)
1. Introduction lecture about Yoni and Lingam Massage
At this lecture, I will share my wisdom about the tantric yoni anatomy and I will explain how to give the yoni massage.
Yoni and lingam massages are used in different ways in other types of tantric massage. There are many important reasons for massaging the genitals.
Thankful to the yoni and lingam massage you may explore much higher types of orgasm and ecstasy than typical peak orgasm, what you may compare as kindergarten to university 🙂
Besides being a great source of pleasure, yoni massage can be a great source of healing for a woman. There are many points where past memories are stored, along with emotional pain, conditioning, prejudices, anxieties, fears, anger, etc. Most of them are highly connected to our sexuality.
It’s not commonly known that the yoni and lingam are the most reflexological active zones in the human body. By stimulating its different parts we are bringing health to all parts of the body.
2. Full Body Orgasm without Touching / Breathing in Shiva Shakti
Full Body Orgasm without Touching Massage is based on energetic touch that doesn’t require physical touch. Still you may be able to bring the person to very deep full body energetic orgasm or if the body choose to deep energetic healing. This technique is also very useful in the cases when people are blocked for touch. I feel that nothing explain better than video with me as model of my teacher and student Flaviu Pop: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jY6Bm2R3Uk
In Breathing in Shiva Shakti – Workshop we will share with you the magic essence of Tantra. We will demonstrate different ways of breathing together, including the way we breathe in Tantra Kriya Yoga, Kashmiric Massage and the Maithuna ritual.
We will do these breathing techniques in the most tantric position: Shiva Shakti, (also called Open Lotus or Yab Yum), in which the partners’ bodies are fully connected on all levels (chakras).
This close connection harmonizes our energies and it will become even more wonderful through breathing together. By doing so, we will awake in us the energy of different elements and different chakras: earth, water, fire, air, ether… and again earth, water…
Instead of losing sexual energy downwards we will bring it to higher parts of ourselves: to the heart, we become more loving; to the throat, we become more communicative, while raising the energy as far as the head will enable us to become more creative and spiritual.
Through this exercise we will also balance our male and female energies, not only in ourselves but also in our relationship. We will create great union between partners and also with nature and the whole universe.
3. Neo Tantric Massage - Full Body
Neo Tantric Massage was the first massage introduced to the West with inherent tantric principles. It was in the 1960s that Kenneth Ray Stubbs first started to add massage of intimate parts of the body in his massage practice.
My other great inspirations have been Margo Anand and Marjanne Hurks.
Other important principles included in Neo Tantric Massage are:
– no goal
– awareness; being here and now
– using sexual energy and moving it upwards, transforming it instead of releasing it (and losing it, as would be the goal in erotic massage)
– the presence of love
The Neo Tantric Massage workshop is conducted in two parts, where the second part is differs according to gender.
1. First day: Intro – full body massage when we prepare the energy for the things to come…
2. Second day: Full body including Yoni massage
3. Third day: Full body including Lingam massage
Yoni and lingam massages are used in different ways in other types of tantric massage.
There many important reasons for massaging the genitals.
Thankful yoni and lingam massage you may explore much higher types of orgasm and ecstasy than typical peak orgasm, what you may compare as kindergarten to university
It’s not commonly known that the yoni and lingam are the most reflexological active zones in the human body. By stimulating its different parts we are bringing health to all
parts of the body.
This is why for me, one of the most important aspects of Neo Tantric Massage is to do it from the heart.
4. Neo Tantric Massage - Worshipping the Yoni
In this day we will massage full body including the yoni.
Besides being a great source of pleasure, yoni massage can be a great source of healing for a woman. There are many points where past memories are stored, along with emotional pain, conditioning, prejudices, anxieties, fears, angers, etc. Most of them are highly connected to our sexuality.
5. Neo Tantric Massage - Worshipping the Lingam
In this day we would massage full body including the lingam.
Lingam massage, especially when done in the neo-tantric way, gives men a great opportunity to learn, exercise and experience the receiving part of his being. This, together with bringing upward energy and ecstasy, can open his heart – something very much needed in today’s world not only by men but by women (as well as for more beautiful lovemaking).
6. Heart Opening Breast Massage, Closing and Sharing
Breast is so connected to the heart chakra, which means to love and connection to yourself, others, nature and whole universe.
Love and connection are one of the most important aspects of tantra and life.
Heart chakra is the most activated centre in a woman. When she would open her heart she is more willing to open her sexuality. That’s also why is very important for the man to open his heart in order to make energy flow in the relationship and in the love making
During this ritual, we would feel “what do we have on our heart”. We would speak from our heart and then, through the breast massage, further we would heal those wounds in order to feel more pleasure.
What you would learn?
– How to express and respect each other boundaries and wishes
– How to do the ritual
– How to give each other breast massage
– More than 20 different breast strokes (including nipples)
– White Tiger strokes what as a daily practice is recommended to energize the breast and prevent cancer
– One of the ways of tantric communication: Speaking from your heart
What you may Experience?
– We will give and receive ritual
– Opening of the heart
– Healing may occur.
– Ecstasy-like never before.
– Healing of your sexuality, past traumas, blockages
After healing and opening heart, your life would never be the same
The Workshops are fully packed with our knowledge, love and respect to honour each other and each others boundaries. They are aimed to heal whatever appears on your journey. This requires trust and the most sensitive approach to the wonderful human being that you are.
By completing the whole course, you fulfill all requirements to receive a certificate of Level III in Tantra Movement School.
Tantra Massage is a tool for :
Deepening love to each other and to ourselves, increasing intimacy
Building up your energy
Balancing Energy in each Chakra
Spreading the energy
Foreplay and After Play
Opening to Trust
Entering into Bliss and Ecstasy
Learning to feel Ecstasy without Releasing the Energy (ejaculation, peak orgasm)